Take a moment and check in: The Wednesday 1-2-3


Hey Reader,

I’m writing this late Tuesday night – and I admit I don't have a ton of emotional capacity right now, so I'll keep this short.

Following the election of Donald Trump in 2016, Sikh activist and lawyer Valerie Kaur took the stage at a church in Washington D.C. and said the following:

What does the midwife tell us to do? Breathe. And then? Push.

Because if we don’t push we will die. If we don’t push our nation will die. Tonight we will breathe. Tomorrow we will labor in love through love and your revolutionary love is the magic we will show our children.

Whatever state you're in, wherever you are, I invite you to breathe. To cry. To scream if you need to. To bury your face in your palms and say the words your heart needs to let go of.

If you need a practice, here's one I go to in times of fear and anxiety:

Practice: Box Breathing

  1. Close your eyes. Breathe in through your nose, slowly counting to 4. Feel the air filling your lungs.
  2. Hold your breath here and slowly count to 4 again. Try not to clamp your airways shut. Simply avoid inhaling or exhaling for 4 counts.
  3. Slowly exhale to the count of 4.
  4. Hold the exhale for another 4 counts.
  5. Repeat steps 1–4 for 4 minutes or until you feel centered.

Guided video here.

It will soon be time to move into action – but not yet. Give yourself a day or two to just breathe and orient to the moment.

Spend this time inhaling and exhaling, letting your shoulders drop, inviting your tears to fall, and remembering the soft animal of your body. (And if you're in need of community or more focused support in navigating this moment, check out the resources below.)

Soon, we will all need to begin to push.

❓ Questions

  1. How are you feeling?
  2. How are you actually feeling?

🧰 Resources


🧩 Community Question


As always, whatever today is for you – and for all of us – I hope you are well enough. Well enough to keep going, to stay with the charge of this moment, and to remain connected, no matter how tentatively, to your sense of dignity, hope, justice, and community.

Until next week,

Andrew

IG: @andrewglang

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