Happy Wednesday Reader! Today's teaching contains a simple practice – easy enough to make happen a couple times in the next few days! I invite you to write yourself a reminder, set an alarm on your phone, or do whatever feels right in order to remember and try it out for yourself. Here it is, along with a couple questions and resources to explore this week: 1. TeachingSince I shared one of my least favorite questions a few weeks ago, I’m starting 2024 off by sharing a favorite one: "What is its function?" A short and flexible question, you can ask this whenever you experience a reaction (no matter how strong or subtle) or are trying to understand why something in your community or society is happening. Feel your anger bubbling? What is the function of that anger? Feel a bodily hesitance or repulsion? What is the function of that response? Reading the news and find yourself in a panic or entering “flight mode?” What is the function of that movement within you? Other ways of asking this might be:
Whether you ask this question in the context of your inner life or as you experience the movements and actions of a community or of our broader society, this question cuts to the core of why we do what we do: what is the function of what is happening? I’ve found it’s one of the best questions to come back to throughout the day, especially in the midst of interpersonal and communal conflict, heightened emotions, or as you seek to make sense of societal and collective crises. If you use this in the next couple days, please let me know how it goes! I’d love to hear any stories or insights that come up for you. 2. Questions
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⏪ If you missed last week's email:Sending you good vibes, Andrew P.S. Even though we’re beginning a new year, I know many of us are exhausted, burned out, and just surviving day-to-day. (Turns out the holidays aren’t always the recharge we need – who knew.) If you’re looking to build a practice that counters these feelings – and want support in becoming more connected and present to your communities – I’m excited to announce I’ll be hosting an inner work cohort in February. Look for more info next week! |
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Hey Reader, Since I began sharing with you about The Gentle Change Collective, I’ve been receiving some really great questions. I’ve compiled a few of them here in case you've wondered similar things! 👉 And if you want a refresher on what this program is going to look like, here’s the last email I sent you. Q: I’ve felt so overwhelmed by what’s happening in our country and abroad. I can’t help feeling like I need to do SOMETHING in my own small way. How can I identify what is mine to do in...
Hey Reader, A quick request: as we come to the close of the year, I have a reader survey for you! It’ll only take a couple minutes and will help inform what The Wednesday 1-2-3 looks like going forward. 📝 Please complete this short 2024 Reader Survey (And in case it helps: there's a cute tardigrade gif at the end of the survey 😂) Last week I was talking with a friend about burnout – specifically “activist burnout.” He mentioned how folks who engage in activism often go full-speed ahead until...