Beyond The Land of the Right, the Land of the Wrong: The Wednesday 1-2-3


Hey Reader,

This month, I'm taking a pause from writing a new issue of The Wednesday 1-2-3 each week and instead sending out some of my favorites from the past two years. Hope you enjoy!

In the middle of reading Rumi's wonderful poem, “A Great Wagon,” there's a stanza that stuck out to me as deeply familiar:

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I’ll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase each other
doesn’t make any sense.

I read it again. And then again. I knew these words. And then it struck me – it sounded an awful lot like a verse from one of my favorite songs!

Beyond the land of the right, the land of the wrong
There's a field waiting for us.
All the notions of you, the notions of me –
We finally agree don't mean a thing.

You can imagine how excited I was to stumble upon this connection.

And so this week, I wanted to share the song “One” by Birdtalker.

If you’ve never heard it before, enjoy. If you’ve heard it before (probably because I recommend it every chance I get), I hope you find some time this week to enjoy it again.

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❓ Questions

  1. How does your understanding of "right" and "wrong" help you to maintain separation and distance from others?
  2. What narratives or comforts do you feel you need to release your hold on in order to become familiar with this "field beyond ideas of right and wrong?"

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Hope all is well-enough with you,

Andrew

IG: @andrewglang

P.S. If you have a word or two that comes up for you when you think of me or my work, I'd love to hear it in this quick 1-question survey! Thanks for your feedback 🙂

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